Saying NO So You Can Say YES
Only Child Syndrome
Selfishness is not exactly foreign to me. I was raised an only child and let’s just say I have not yet completely grown out of the inability to share my toys. (nah, i’m a good sharer. i swear. except when it comes to food. oops.) However, I think this little character flaw is going to be quite useful during these next two years leading up to my AT thru-hike.
Because the reality is – and I know I am not the first person to come up with this thought – there is never going to be a “good time” to take six months off to go walk in the woods. For most people, there are always going to be responsibilities like careers, families, bills, etc.
The way to make it possible – at least for me – is to plan. And save. And sacrifice.
REI – Here I come!
One of the more exciting responsibilities I have taken on is a part-time job at REI! I am going to continue to practice law full-time, but on some of my nights and weekends, I am going to clock some shifts at my local REI. I see so many benefits to having this job: 1) meeting new people/co-workers with similar interests as mine, 2) some extra money to pay off some credit card debt (a big goal of mine prior to starting my thru), and 3) that siiiiick employee discount.
What I’m trying to say, friends, families, and strangers, is over these next two years, I might not be the Emily you have come to know and love. I might not say, “yes!” to any concert at the drop of a hat and I might be spending my weekends hiking in the White Mountains rather than making trips to all those cool cities you guys live in that I have been promising to visit.
For me to say YES to this incredible journey, I am going to have to say NO to a lot of things these next two years. And it may seem that, while I am saying No to you, I am still saying Yes to things like backpacking trips and new pieces of gear. And for that, I am sorry. But I know most of you will understand because most of you are freeeeeaking awesome and I thank you for that.
K. that’s enough for now. thanks for reading. <3
What are some things you have had to say “No” to while planning your thru-hike?
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